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Time for another quiz: In the Southern Highlands, what can you look for to indicate whether you’ve stumbled upon a wedding or a funeral?

a. Enormous vats of food being cooked
b. Women wearing swathes of bright, patterned cloth (vitenge)
c. At least two people who look incredibly unhappy
d. Drum-dancing
e. There are several people with little notebooks collecting donations
f. People are laughing, joking and telling stories

And the answer is… b. If all the women are wearing vitenge, usually one wrapped around the waist and one covering the torso and/or head, it is most likely a funeral. These are normal-wear in the village, but especially important at funerals. At a wedding, people tend to wear skirts and shirts that have been sewn from these swathes of cloth.

At weddings, the two people who are obligated to look unhappy are the bride and groom, and in addition the bride’s family members are not supposed to be happy as their little girl is leaving the family.

At first, I thought it was disrespectful to be cheerful at a funeral. I soon found you should be solemn when inside the house where family members sit with the corpse, but outside it is normal to be social. A large portion of the village shows up to each funeral, therefore not all of them are terribly close relatives of the deceased.

In some parts, the Wahehe relatives shave their heads completely bald the day after the funeral. Then it is easy to tell who the bereaved are.

A particularly beautiful part of the culture is the drum-dancing. At funerals, they sometimes wear bells on their ankles and dance all night, singing songs about the deceased.